Today's younger women, entitled, wanting what they want on their terms with no consideration or accountability for their actions, always plays the victim card and is a bottomless cesspit of insecurities and mental health issues. Participation trophies have consequences. I know of a former colleague whose wife attended a bridal shower and she managed to give a male stripper a blowjob. She subsequently received a diagnosis of syphilis of the throat. She tried to blame it on her husband but two other women also at the bridal party engaged in performing oral sex on the stripper and they too caught the STI with the exact same diagnosis.
My first wife was at a friend's bachelorette party and was the only one who dared to do it, she gave the stripper a blowjob until he came in her mouth in front of all of them while they recorded it on video.